Parent Meetings Aren’t One-Size-Fits-All

Meeting students where they are means we need to meet parents where they are, too.

Topics: Vision and Culture

When I was a high school counselor in Lindsay Unified School District in Lindsay, California, we held a parent meeting each year to help parents navigate the college application process. However, we had a group of parents that needed more. Some of the parents had never attended college and spoke a language different from what the college application was written in. We realized that our standard parent meeting wasn’t what these families needed to support their children, and that we had to do something about it.

We targeted an in-depth series of eight sessions towards those parents who had not attended college themselves. Each session covered different topics, such as how to request and read a transcript, how to make an appointment with their counselor and what questions to ask or the college admissions process. We also conducted the meetings in Spanish.

We still offered the standard parent meeting, but the cohort was created in response to a real need in our community for something different. Sometimes uncovering those needs requires that we look at our standard means of family and community engagement a little bit differently. It can be something as simple as meeting with different groups of families at different times or on different days to accommodate work schedules, or meeting in locations that are easier for parents who don’t have transportation.

Transparency is the most important piece of the family and community engagement puzzle. Survey parents to get a sense of what their needs are and what opportunities they’d like to see – but be sure to communicate the results of that survey, too. If your parents come out overwhelmingly in favor of something, communicate with them how that result is influencing your next steps, what you’re going to do and for how long. Parents aren’t always aware of how district leaders come to certain decisions, and being transparent about that with them helps them feel like they have a voice and they’re a part of the process.

At Waukesha STEM Academy, they’ve taken the traditional model for a parent-teacher conference and flipped it on its head.